If custody is at issue in a divorce case then the mental and physical condition of the parties are statutory factors that must be considered by the court. For a very brief period, there was a statute in Virginia that made mental health records exempt from disclosure in such situations. That is no longer the case, and the situation is as it always has been. The records can be subpoenaed and a court will compel their production if there is a custody issue.
This does not sound legitimate. First, who would contact the command by text and Facebook? Who is she texting? Second, there are military regulations regarding support of family members. Third, she can go to Family Relief. Fourth, she could go to the Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court and file for support.
She can talk with the military legal office for advice.
I don't know of any laws that are there to protect him and not her.
To obtain a Protective Order there needs to be some threat of physical harm to you, so this would not appear to be an option.
Get the child support and let him file for custody (which usually is a bluff anyway). Your child has a right to that support.
The court order remains in effect until the judge enters a new court order. Filing a motion does not change a court order. If you fail to obey a court order, you can be held in contempt of court anf punished by fine or imprisonmement. Not a good idea.
It can be changed ONLY if either she agrees or there is a provision in the Agreement that permits it to be modified. Even if the Agreement permits modification, you still would have to show a material change of circumstances since you agreed to it.
I am assuming in answering this that you do not have some legal defense to the validity of the entire Agreement ( such as fraud, duress) and that you just made a bad deal. Courts make adults live with their bad deals. They make a consultation with a...
First, any money put into the TSP during the marriage is marital property that is subject to division in a divorce. That is the reason that the TSP Board requires the spouse's signature. You can go to court and seek entry of an Order.
First, QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders) are entered by the court that granted the divorce. The case usually can be reopened to have one entered.
Since you mentioned DFAS, however, it appears that you are dealing with a division of a military retirement. A QDRO is not required to divide a military retirement. This is done in the Final Decree of Divorce.
In order to apply for direct payments, a former spouse must submit a completed Application for Former Spouse Payments from Retired...
Hire a new lawyer is the correct answer. The new lawyer can substitute in and hopefully bring this case to a conclusion.
You will not obtain any relief through the federal court system. You need to find a lawyer and cooperate with that lawyer. Complaining about the court system-which admittedly is flawed-will not help. It is the only system that you have to work in and with. This means that you may have to do things that you do find to be personally acceptable because the law and the courts...