What kind of lawyer do i need?

Call lawyers in your area and ask around. Lawyers set their own fees so I can't tell you what other lawyers are going to charge you.

I am 17 and poorly decided too shoplift from Walmart I stole 40$ worth of merchandise cops weren't called is this on my record

If you were not arrested and no charges were filed and you did not get a citation to appear in court, then it is not on your record.

Charged with a class b possession of marijuana.caught very little amount found in a paper had tobacco mixed wit marijuana.

Get a criminal defense attorney ASAP. The lab reports can detect the presence of marijuana even if it's mixed with tobacco. The judge will not...

Generally speaking, the only time served that counts is time actually spent in jail. The judge may give credit for probation time or rehab but...

What is the best option for me to go with if I am accused with a ticket of speeding 10 miles over in a 45mph?

You can pay the ticket, you can set it for trial, you can get a lawyer. I can't tell you what your best option it.

Im living @my friends house because my mom kicked me out Im 16 yrs old i wanna get a job but im afraid she'll make a dig deal

The worst part is that even though you say your mother kicked you out, you're legally considered a runaway. You're not legally emancipated, but...

Is it legal for a 17 year old male to move out without parents concent and is still in highschool?

No, he cannot leave home without parental consent unless he's either 18 or he is legally emancipated by a judge.

Can I get off probation early to re-enlist in the Military?

It's unlikely seeing how you were originally charged with DWI. The judge and the DA are both likely to consider you to have gotten a break with...

Trespassing

Technically it is, though it's highly unlikely that you would be prosecuted for anything unless you cause a disturbance.

How to make the potential attorney to re-fund my down payment upon his request. Then found out he had a notorious reputation?

You may want to file a grievance with the state bar. The fact that he took your money and didn't show up for court is enough reason.