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How does a friend sign over custody of a child to me?

Assuming that both biological parents are in agreement it's very simple. You need to hire an attorney to prepare a complaint and consent order. ...

How are Holographic wills enforced in NC?

Yes, holographic wills are recognized in NC. A valid holographic will must be written entirely in the testator's handwriting, signed, and found...

How does an abused child leave the situation?

He can decide where to live once he turns 18. If you think he's being physically abused you need to contact law enforcement and DSS.

Went to court for Emergency Custody Order and now have received a court date for a “motion for reconsideration” in the mail?

You should be directing these questions to your attorney who knows the full picture. Just based upon what you have written, I wouldn't worry about...

No, DSS can't take a child "without any evidence" but your interpretation of whether DSS has any evidence is going to be far different than how DSS...

If he is willing to sign an agreement with the new amount, it'll go through as the department writes it out. If he refuses, you'll have a hearing....

Can I file a proposed order in a custody case before the day of the hearing?

The proposed consent order does not get filed or presented to the judge. If it's rejected by the opposing party then it's irrelevant.

What does amended mean?

It's hard to follow your question but it appears that you received an amended notice of hearing. This means that your new court date is the date...

Yes it sounds like he is in violation of the order. Your recourse is to file a motion for contempt and an order to show cause.