Yes, it did need to be notarized in order to be valid. http://www.ncleg.net/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/PDF/BySection/Chapter_52/GS_52-10.1.pdf

What steps do I need to take to contest my father's will without it costing me $50,000.00?

Will caveat proceedings (which is what you are talking about) are incredibly complicated and expensive, so if you want to undertake this procedure...

You cannot consent to your sister having custody without the father also consenting. Your sister needs to file a complaint for custody, you guys...

Does rule 4 require me to attempt using the sheriff first if i want to personally serve the defendant?

Rule 4 doesn't require that you attempt sheriff first, but that's absolutely the cheapest and easiest thing to do.

What is my best option in this case?

If he wants visitation, he's 99.999% certain to get SOME type of visitation. If you can convince the judge that he's a danger to her, he might get...

How do I file an appeal of custody that originated in PA but the children have been residing in NC for almost 3 years?

I'm confused as to who lives where, but until you, the father, your aunt and uncle, and the children all move out of PA, PA will retain...

When the mother has a paternity test done can i or can i not give up my rights then and there?

No you cannot, unless she is married and her husband is ready, willing, and able to adopt the child. Unless and until that happens, you cannot...

I have power of attorney over my sixteen-year-old great nephew, I am also his God Mom, he does not want to return to Va

I think what you are asking is how to keep him in NC? If mom and dad are both in agreement, you need to file a friendly complaint for custody...

Can my parents call the cops if I walk out of the house and stay at my boyfriend's place.

Until you turn 18 or get emancipated, your parents can absolutely prohibit you from staying with a boyfriend. In fact, that's their job.

Can I win a custody case without legal representation

It's certainly possible to have a good outcome without an attorney but you're always better off being represented.