You can move wherever you'd like. You don't need to appear in court for the divorce if you hire an attorney to handle it for you. Before you move...

Do I have to let my sons dad see him?

Dad has the same rights to the child as you do, and he can ask the court for visitation/custody at any time. The ultimate outcome is going to be...

How do I start the process of filing an order for violation of visitation?

You need to file a motion for contempt and an order to show cause. You can't do that until he actually violates the order, and it could take weeks...

How do I get jurisdiction changed: transfered when on state claims they are home state ?

I'm unclear as to what exactly has been filed and/or ordered and where. If you want to try to get an order set aside or modified you need to file...

My granson has live with me for 4 years I'm in Gastonia his mom is in Florida and his dad is in Germany all of a sudden his mo ?

Unless you have custody of the child pursuant to a court order, mom and dad are the only people with legal rights to the child. File a complaint...

Is your temporary custody agreement signed by a judge? If so, and if it properly spells out the circumstances, that's all the protection you need....

Can my children's father stop me from putting them into another school or home school if I am the primary custodial parent?

He can't stop you necessarily, but he can certainly file a motion to modify custody due to the school change as well as any other substantial...

How do I get my child from my second husband?

Where does your ex husband live? Have you contacted law enforcement in his county?

Am I obligated/required to let my EX know who and where the children are at all times?

You're required to do whatever the order/agreement states - nothing more, nothing less. I would be shocked if the language obligated you to...

What are my rights?

If the deed is solely in his name, it's his house. If you aren't married you don't have any legal rights to any of the equity and as the sole...