Does a notarized letter stating that a woman does not want monetary compensation for child support work?

DOesn't help at all. YOu're on the hook for child support until your child is 18, whatever mom says now.

A woman asked me not to contact her, I do not respect this, what am I legally allowed to say to her when I do?

THe legal limits are LEAVE HER ALONE.!!!!She asked nicely that you not contact her; you're going to try anyhow. THe next time, her "request"...

Yes, the other side can take your deposition. You need to get an experienced custody attorney involved in this, NOW. Child custody trial work is...

In some sense, it's "double-dipping", but, at least in California, it's still the law, though it seems unfair. Look at it this way: if you...

My lawyer did not ask that i receive medical insurance for life. I was married over 20yrs....It should be automatic!!

If you were 40 at the time of the dissolution, nothing would have been "automatic", and unless you agreed that the support was non-modifiable, it...

What does the "joint legal custody" order say specifically about who must consent to non-emergency medical care?

How do I appeal against a restraining order and what are my chances?

Did you have an attorney representing you at the hearing? If so, talk to him/her. If not, the chances that you will get the restraining order...

If Petitioner (has full custody) files does NOT consent to Joinder but Resp't does concent, does Petitioner still have to appear

Not enough information. Not clear what you are referring to when you make reference to "Joinder". A "joinder" adds someone, besides the two...

Married in 2002 left her in 2004, her attorney filed for a divorce. I filled out the necessary paperwork and returned them ASAP

Sorry, but : Her attorney wasn't your attorney, and you weren't his client. He (or she) owed you no duty of care, and you can't (successfully)...

Can a family law attorney request fees from "other side" via money order payable to CASH? When I asked for tax Id she refused.

Sounds slightly fishy. Issue her a check, or cashiers' check, and let her explain to the judge wht that's not satisfactory.