My wife and her boss have been having an open affair in front of our children.

There's no action to pursue, other than divorcing your wife. ...and, by the way, California attorneys cannot ethically undertake any family law...

Does Post Nupital Agreement have to declare my assets/savings/income?

It is absolutely true; a post-nuptial agreement without complete financial disclosure is almost certainly completely invalid.

My wife will not give me the name and number of the lawyer she talked to about our divorce, do I have options?

Sorry, but if she hasn't hired the lawyer, and that lawyer hasn't filed something making her the 'attorney of record" in a pending case, your wife...

JUST NEED TO KNOW WHAT PAPER I FILE FOR BACK SPOUSAL SUPPORT

If you know where he now works, then all that needs to happen is the garnishment or asignment order needs to be served on the new employer.

Do I need an attorney if the police want to question my 14 yr old son about an alleged molestation?

No.

I need an attorney to do a confidential marriage license verification for me. Is this possible for a reasonable fee??

Law enforcement isn't going to be very interested even if you verify that he's gotten married, unless his new "wife" complains. More critically,...

Is it true that i can get more of the profit from our house when its sold because my wife cheated on me in the house itself?

Your mother heard incorrectly. This is a no-fault divorce state, since 1970.

Can you request a the person who receives child support to provide a detail of what the money is spent on?

You can ask; there's no legal obligation to respond, however.

Code 2640 stay at home mom of 15 yrs isn't entitled toanything because multi millionaire paid for entire home and lifestyle???

You seem quite confused; Family Code 2640 deals with the entitlement of a spouse who uses separate property to buy a community property asset...

If Dad doesn't care enough to do anything about it, and he's a legally competent adult, you can't do anything about it.