Could my wife come visa while she waits until her visa becomes available?

Yes, she can visit. but, as the priority date gets closer, it will be harder for her to convince the US Consul she's telling the truth ... ie:...

EAD and H1B term

You have a lot of confusing 'what if' questions. My basic advice is that, unless you have a reason for believing that your I-485 will be denied,...

Chances of Bond and cancellation of removal

As previously mentioned, this is not for the faint of heart. Get an immigration attorney that is well versed in the immigration consequences of...

Does my husband need to submit the change of address too?

Attorney Dixler is the 'most' correct. If the US citizen signed the I-864, then he/she must submit an I-865.

What can I do if my husband has served his time in county jail and ICE has not picked him up and its been past 48 hours??

Talk to an immigration attorney. If you are fortunate, he/she might get him released.

H1 Visa; Advance Parole

No H-1B visa stamp = no entry to the US. Use the AP.

Does this mean he can never become a legal resident??

A coke conviction is very, very, very bad. Make sure that the criminal defense lawyer doesn't do a plea bargain. Talk to an immigration attorney.

Im 18 got married and i want to give my wife residency/citizenship how old do i have to be to do that?

The direct answer to your question is that you must be 18 to sponsor a spouse.

I am certain that you did an internet search and learned that "nolle prosequi" means "not prosecuted". Thus, you have a "clean" record. Still,...

First, think before you act. If there are children involved, they may all be deported. If there are crimes happening, call the police.