You need to call the local child support office. They will have more information on this than any of us would have.

If the Court has ordered him to pay the debt through the divorce and he hasn't, you need to get in to court asap for contempt. If there is no...

Most judges won't allow a parent to just terminate rights unless there is someone (ie step-parent) to step in and adopt. I'm sorry you and the mom...

Find an attorney who handles surrogacy and hire them to assist.

I'm sorry you've been put in the middle and/or there seems to be a rift with you and your mom. Unless court orders are modified, if she wanted them...

Ms Tobin is spot on. Hire an experienced attorney now to help start the process so things can get filed etc once she gives birth.

It is likely she will be able to testify at a hearing on the EPO. As Ms. Tobin indicated, she can't write a letter to the judge. I also agree...

I'll concur with my colleague from Washington...in that IF there was a DNA test done back in the early 1980s, it would be part of the court file. ...

I concur with Ms. Tobin. Find and retain an attorney in your area who is experienced with step-parent adoptions to get the process started.

If he is not on the lease or co-owner of the house, you can likely go through eviction court to formally evict him if he does not leave willingly.