Does a bond hearing mean that you will be denied for a bond reduction?

Typically a bond hearing is just that. A hearing to see if his bond should be adjusted. I assume he has an attorney.

How can I access my deceased father's bank account and safety deposit box?

You would need to open a Probate in the county where he lived when he passed. Depending on the amounts in the account, you may be able to open a...

If I have left north Carolina with my daughter, and was served a complaint for custody/visitation, what are my options?

No that is not true. The state that where the current custody order is has jurisdiction UNLESS you have established domicile in another state...

What are the consequences?

Well, there is no such thing as a Legal Separation in NC. If you have lived apart then you are separated so long as she wants the separation to be...

Whether it is or not, how woudl you even find out who this person is to take any action?

Have a Power of Attorney written up in 2011 for my mother but the notary year is 2010

Any notary can do this for you. No need to call the same person you call ed before.

The terms of your friend's probation might allow that. It is his problem if it is not true.

My husband left me and moved in with his partner and daughter since 2008. If I win the lotto do I have to share with him?

No, it is considered post separation property. But you should get divorced.

What is the best avenue that I can take?

You should attempt to change the custody agreement. File for a custody modification.

Can my mom make me get a IUD?

The Dr. will not likely perform a procedure you do not want.