Can I ask my probation officer to just convict me of the crime instead of being on probation?

You have been convicted already, that is why you are on probation. Probation is your sentence rather than jail. I am sure jail is worse.

Can a mom get bio dad to sign consent for step dad to adopt, then try to reverse it 12 years later ?

Consent to adopt is not adoption. He is still on the hook. He does however have a compelling argument in court.

Can I take fence down that is on our property or do we need to file suit?

I would follow the advice your attorney already gave you. It sounds like you tried to be reasonable with your neighbor. But they are actually...

We all pay them and don't understand them. Its taxes plain and simple

Can u get lock up if you absconded of probation

He can get locked up depending on depending on what his original charge was. He should text, leave a voicemail email, or go to her office. He needs...

I can't think of why you would not. God Bless you sir for working at you age. There are 27 year olds are too lazy to work. I salute you.

I was I was arrested on March 12th for a DUI on a private driveway of my home I was under the I was it within the legal limit a

You need to hire a lawyer. Good Luck

How am.i protected if my ex is threatening to show a video of us engage in oral sex without my consent to exploiy me ?

Well honestly you just admitted here to doing it, so what if he posts it.

Whom do you serve when a person you are suing does not confirm who is attorney is?

You can serve the party through his attorney. If you have doubts, you can serve the party.

Do I have grounds for suing?

You may have a case against the REA as he had a duty to foreclose any problems he knew about.