How can I get someone charged with a false police report if the investigator wont do it.

Being found not guilty is the first step. But being found not guilty doesn't automatically mean the police report was false. I'd suggest...

Can she make make me attend another group, and if so, a group of her choosing?

Your feeling is correct. You are her puppet. The answer to your question is yes, she can make you attend a different group.

Should I be worried they will run my plates and send me an underage or anything like that?

No. They can only prove that you were at the party, which isn't illegal. They need more information, your car being there isn't enough for an...

Case of slander and false report

To get the most accurate answer, make sure you ask a question.

What are my options

There are plenty of options, but most cases either end via a plea or at trial. Show up to the first date and see what the prosecutor has to say. ...

Can I get my underage dropped?

You haven't given any reason to believe your case will be dropped. I'd suggest hiring a local attorney to see what your options are.

What could happen

If you go you could be revoked and sentenced to the maximum penalty.

Not showing up to a charging conference may encourage a DA to issue charges. Showing up to a charging conference with an attorney who can explain...

Can I get in trouble for having contact with my boyfriend if the no contact order is not through the courts?

No, you can't get in trouble, because it's not against your rules. And there aren't any standard rules of supervision that would prohibit you from...

Can they even charge him?

It's not hearsay when an individual says another person committed a crime. Often police aren't on scene when a crime occurs, so yes, that can be...