Does my attorney really need a release from my mother in law for funds given to her on my behalf?

It sounds like your attorney is just being cautious, which isn't a bad thing, especially considering the situation with your PO and the trust.

While I can kind of understand why this might look like a good idea to you, it isn't. You mentioned that this is an emotional case. Criminal...

I was arrested and charged with possession of marijuana and paraphernalia

Same answer as your previous question. This sounds like a citation. For a definite answer talk to an attorney.

Got arrested for marijuana possesion and paraphernalia

This sounds like a citation. Since it sounds like you've already paid the fine, you've also been found guilty of it.

Why do criminal defense lawyers always seem to point out the possible maximum sentencing?

Sounds like you're talking to attorneys who are doing their jobs. A judge can sentence you to the maximum penalty. And your case, based only on...

Who can help me out with getting my case expunged and how much will it cost?

The judge made that decision at sentencing. The decision whether to expunge must be made at that time.

Can I defeat my dui charge based on the officer not offering me a different test due to my injuries?

While this could certainly help your argument that the police officer didn't have probable cause to arrest you, he probably also performed the...

This is normal. The DA's office isn't struggling to decide which charges to file. The office is probably waiting on some sort of test result. ...

Each court clerk kind of decides what they're going to write. My guess is that motions, etc. are due within 10 days.

Will my theft charge stay on my recored?

Yes, a theft charge will remain on your record. If this is a first offense I'd suggest contacting a local criminal defense attorney. Sometimes...