Can i file for a divorce even thou she has file for seperation, with a court date?

If your wife agrees you may file an assent to motion to convert the legal separation to a divorce. Best wishes.

I'm getting a divorce. Can I demand money from my husband that he was supposed to be putting away for retirement but didn't?

You may ask the court for a larger share of the assets due to your husband's wasteful spending. You will need evidence to prove the wasteful...

Ex husband refuses to comply with orders about life insurance

You should file a contempt action. You may ask the court to have him incarcerated or fined until he complies. Best wishes.

How many time have I to declare my divorce to IRS? Is there any trouble if I don't so?how can I do it?

This question is best answered by an accountant.

How do I and my ex spouse do a QDRO to finalize our divorce

QDROs are complex. Your best option would be use the attorney who represented you in the divorce. If an attorney did not represent you then you...

Do I need to file with the family court too any document I send my wife's lawyer?

Discovery is not filed in the court. If you are responding to pleading your wife's lawyer files in court then you must file the original response...

Should I put his current name or the name that is on my birth certificate (because the copy of it will be attached)?

An immigration attorney is the best person to answer this question. Best wishes.

Possible?

You may object to the name change. There is a fairly recent case in New Hampshire where the judge denied the request to change the child's name...

You need to file an enforcement proceeding in the other state or allow child support services enforce the order. Best wishes.

How can we arrange this divorce?

The same attorney cannot represent one and your husband. An attorney can represent you and your husband can determine if he wants to hire his own...