As noted above, both parties typically share the cost of mediation. Please check the order that directed you to mediation to see if the Court...

My ex kept filing falsely accusation that children are unsafe with me during my parenting time. Is there any action I can do?

I agree with Scott's response above. The courts have held that repeated false accusations like the ones you describe above can be used as a basis...

Is it best to wait for mediation and take the past drug test that I have or go into the lab he picked.

if there is a court order that says you should be drug tested by a facility selected by the father, you should follow through with that. However,...

Help me come up with alternatives for what I described above. We are scheduled for mediation on May 4th, 2016

I think you have to rely on the advice of your attorney, but if you are not comfortable with the advice you are receiving, it is never too late to...

You may file an application with the court and ask that the mother be responsible for a larger portion or all of the costs of counselling; however,...

What is possibility of me getting pri. res. back for older child, losing pri. Res. Of 2nd child, or remaining as it is now.

The school system where your husband lives may have required an order that demonstrated that he was the parent of primary residence and that could...

Are my expectations too high? If not, any advice?

Have you shared the order with the doctor's office? If the doctor's office or school receives an order and the order specifically states that you...

Can custody be changed that easily with false accusations? Can I get the harassment to stop? How can I keep kids safe?

Custody cannot change that easily and it does not appear that the father has any good reason for a change. It appears that he is just retaliating...

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What relief can I ask in court since my son's mother decided in her own to cut communication with me regarding our kid?

If you have a court order which states that communications between you and your ex should be through email, then you should continue to communicate...

My ex filed motion on me, I answered. He answered with lies back. Can I send the judge a letter to clarify his lies?

I agree with Scott above. Given the issues in your matter, the court may very well schedule your ex-spouse's Motion for oral argument. If the...