What to expect and what can be done?

Expect the lawyer to do his/her job and the case to go forward up to a year.

Can I request charges be dropped, as the victim?

Yes you can make that request to the prosecutor and speak with his lawyer.

So the sheriffs office gave my device back, what now?

Hope so but none of us lawyers have a clue what you are talking about so impossible to answer.

I refused to get extended on the 2yrs felony probation what do i do

Run don't walk in hiring that lawyer asap!

They can now so yes also with your ip address.

If bond is taken by judge can u get it back?

Bonds are set by Judge's unclear of your question.

How long does it take for a bail bond to be reinstated ?

Could be a minute or days however long the it takes the Judge to sign the reinstatement. Best to ask your lawyer.

I want to leave my husband he making my life hard and misable for me

Easy answer leave call friends, family shelters to go to or continue in abuse cycle your choice, lots of help out there.

What to do when an unauthorized person try to take money from your bank account

Call the police and report the fraud, try to resolve it with the company.

My husband and mother mentally physically help abuse due to damages from 2007 to 2017 abused me my son daughter grandchildren

Sorry to hear of this I am sure there are many social agencies out there to help. Google them.