My Attorney doesn't like me. Can they drop me for any reason?

The relationship between you and your attorney is outlined in your contract read it. yes a lawyer can do a poor job if they want to which does not...

Can a cop look up my plate number for someone?

yes they can ask them if they will..............................

Yes you will need one unless you are a skilled family lawyer...................

What should an American father do?

American father should consult with a local family/custody lawyer as this post doesn't really make sense.

Was it illegal for the police to search my home just because my boyfriend who was on federal and state probation was there.

No clue what does the terms of his probation state? Consult a local Criminal Defense attorney if unclear so she/he can read them and advise.

How do I go about unclosed information which lead to the removal of my child?

You consult with your lawyer on this serious complicated case..................................

Can I hold somebody property until they pay me my money

You can do whatever the two of you agree upon yes...............................Post doesn't really make sense.

How do I sell my rent to own home?

Call a real estate Agent............................................................................

How is an escrow account set up at a bank?

Ask your lawyer how he set it up............................................

What recourse do I have when a recent Ex girlfriend sends me an Extortion Letter telling me what I'm going to admit to and pay

You have answered your own question call the police............................