How can I do this without Pressing charges?

Hire a lawyer or sue them in small claims Court.

If i been down on a 3g offense will my case now be 3g?

Not necessarily so if the new charge is a 3g then yes.if the charge is lets say a pocs which is not a 3g then no. The time in tdcj depends on...

What happens when u trespass a private property?

If they report it to the police, you may be arrested for a misdemeanor criminal trespass charge and prosecuted in county court.

If someone is on deferred adjudication..

yes as long as there are no conditions prohibiting it. fastest way to get an accurate answer is for the someone to call his/her probation officer...

Should I be concerned?

I would and call the sheriff's office and ask whats going on and yes police when investigating someone do what you described and more.

I would say yes depending on who is doing the background check and if they are checking all states.

Can you ask to shorten your probation?

Hire a criminal attorney to file a motion for early termination shouldn't be that costly shop around.

Can I just take my phone back?

Yes and you can call the police and report it as a theft if she refuses.

Do i need sr22?

Call dps and ask them..................................

What is AA class in pen?

Unclear of your question. I think you may asking what is AA in the penitentiary? AA may be alcoholic anonymous meeting could mean other things.