What can I do about this?

I would block her and not care that she expose any pictures of mine. Oh wait are your photos sexually explicit? if that is the case and you do not...

Am I going to be arrested if I go to court.

How to get out of rock and hard place... hire a local defense attorney to figure it all out and advocate to the judge to lift the warrant if there...

Will the judge and/or DA find out about a potential violation of deferred disposition if no new charges filed before due date?

They will if they read this post and can figure out who you are; which is unlikely since Houston is big. The answers to your specific question are...

Did you ever doubt yourself and/or wondered how you would feel representing a killer?

yes have doubted myself haven't met a human who hasn't yet. I have not wondered how I would feel representing a killer because I have represented...

What could be the best option(s) to prevent the felony charges from staying on my record?

Your local criminal defense Attorney will be able to answer this specific question after looking at all the facts and evidence there may be legal...

How does someone have a felony reduced to a misdemeanor

This is done at the time you plead guilty to the lesser included offense if offered (10 years ago). It is not possible to change a charge that you...

What can I do, that will prevent me from going to jail.

What can you do? Get current on fees and finish community service to put you in a good position.

Would I possibly be able to fight it in court?

Nope, you gave a statement to police that you had been drinking . You might be able to get some sort of deferred probation to keep it off your...

The specific answer to your question will be answered by the someone you know's attorney. I am sure you are not looking for speculative guess work...

How can I divorce at no or low cost?how do I know if he still has rights to the children he abused?my son bags me to remove his

Talk to a Family lawyer in your area. Obviously there is no rush as he is in prison and can't do anything.