Is there a conflict of interest by my brothers lawyers being neighbors and by controlling who takes possion of the house ?

There may be a conflict. Your scenario is hard to follow. Your lawyer would be in the best position to answer your specific question after...

What can I do to get my money back? Attorney provided no services.

It depends on your professional services contract terms. You can send him a certified letter requesting your money back and time spend on your case...

What happens next?

I don't know how you mistakenly shoplifted. Once you realized it was a mistake did your return the merchandise to the store and pay for it? if not...

Will a law enforcement agency(Ankeny, Ia police dept)be able to come to a different city/Co. to arrest me since theres a warrant

yes, they will be looking for you. You should hire a criminal defense attorney in Ankeny to represent you and assist you ASAP.

The fastest way to find him is to hire a private investigator.

Can you go back and fill out a report 8 hours after an "accident"?

To clear this up you should call the police department. No one on this general question and answer forum will be able to give you the specific...

Ignoring what I can't prove,can their lack of credibility vs our complete credibility get this gone?What about defamation

If you have been arrested an accused of a crime you should hire a local criminal defense Attorney immediately. Your lawyer will get the State's...

Will the courts allow the parent to have this person to supervise visits?

Your lawyer who practices in this Court should be able to answer your specific question.

Filing a tort while pending divorce case

Get a second opinion you can hire a lawyer for that purpose. But generally, your lawyer is in the best position to advise you. None of us on this...

What is the best way to approach the judge on this

Best way is to have your lawyer handle is as counsel stated.