Is there a specific reason your family/custody lawyer could not answer this question knowing all the facts, law and evidence?

Can a parent change an unfair visitation order that is not in the best interest of the child

yes, a parent through their family attorney can request this from the Judge.

How do I file an Answer to a Petition to Modify Physical Custody or in the alternative to Modify Parenting Time?

You go to your forms and pull up motion to modify and draft accordingly.

Can I date or have sexual relations with a 16 year old?

Best to have sex and date someone your age who is stable.

What happens now? shoplifting at macys. petit larceny.

You can't afford a lawyer but willing to pay a $1,000 fine to be convicted of theft that will stay on your record for life and prevent you from...

How long can they hold you in jail after city court bounds case over to grand jury?

Once he is bonded out there will be no hold.

What happens when a mother reports statutory rape when she allowed it and after 2 years?

Highly unlikely you will be charged with being a party to statutory rape. if you report this to the police however, they will investigate the case...

To get out

Not in this country!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whats happening if they reopened a case & says : Judgement of Conviction Following Revocation? Is it a Good thing or Bad thing ?

After reviewing the actual Judgment you will be able to know if it is good or bad reduced sentence or add on.

How does having a lawyer better my chances of getting ear;y termination of probation.

You got it no lawyer needed! Make sure you file the appropriate motion give the appropriate notice, set it on the appropriate docket and subpoena...