What do I do about visitation when I have not received a court order but have been verbally told to start visitations?

Call the person who verbally told you to start visitation and ask them.

Obviously, they can and did deny the letter. since none of us lawyers work for Social service none of can answer for their policy and procedure...

It means your son is release from jail I presume and transferred to another jail in another city,town or state. What did the jail tell you when...

Can i press charges of statutory rape against my daughter's boyfriend?

Your first step is to call the police and report it, they will advise if charges are warranted. at least for criminal trespassing.

What will happen to me if I don't respont to Childrens Social Services?

Your specific answer will come from calling social services directly. No way to know otherwise and our guesses won't help you.

What can I do if I want to move out of state with my daughter but my ex refuses?

Hire a family lawyer to get Court ordered custody. Otherwise you are free to move with your daughter anywhere just as the father can up and leave...

How would American men feel?

There is no way to answer this question as each individual feels the way they feel. Not possible to know how a group of American men feel. Ask...

If a family member is a local attorney now seeking election to a Judge could there be a conflict of interest in the court system

Hard to understand the narrative. Not sure who is who. Best to consult with a local family lawyer with regard to your question.

Is it illegal for my daughter to put her hands on me and push me out of her house

It may be, call the police and report the assault.

I have a friend that took a known registered sex offender to a birthday party for a child under 10 will she get in trouble.

She may not get invited again if that is what you mean by trouble/ The sex offender may be in jeopardy of getting arrested if he violated a term or...