What do i do when being accused of crime i did not commit?

Hire a local Criminal Defense attorney to see if they can get the case dismissed.

How can I get an out of state felony that I just found out about reduced to a misdemeanor or dismissed?

Hire local Criminal Defense attorney to try and get cases dismissed based on your facts.................................

All depends on the facts and circumstance and evidence. Consult family lawyer to review and advise how hard it will be.

Do they do checks or test for alcohol when its part of your bond while in the DPP but is not the actual charge against you?

You answered your own question yes and yes they will test you.

Is a court order incomplete/unfulfilled if a specific item is not provided as ordered?

yes it is...............................................................

I have my son my wife took her stuff and left, what can I do to get temporary custody of him till a divorce/cus hearing?

Hire a family/custody/divorce lawyer asap for options and temporary court orders.

How come the attorney who suspended my license hasn't had it reinstated?

No clue why as none of us lawyers have your case. Perhaps ask him directly for a specific answer.

Is there specific police protocol when apprehending a suspect who engaged in a tussle with officer?

Yes there is it is in volumes of police training, books, material, documents.

Can i sue my sorry father in law

Not for consensual adult sexual activity for trade no.............................

What is advice of rights?

No clue what in the world you are talking about? If its a poa many forms exist. Not enough info here to guess.