When can I go to court please help me.

You will need to file modification paperwork with the court.

Other parent will still have a change to get the child back.

If I were to put him on child support, would he get in trouble because of the age difference?

Typically people do not ask questions like this when initiating child support as long as you are over 18 now.

Housing and separation date related questions in a disputed divorce case under a valid pre-nup agreement

If the home is your sole property than you should be able to initiate an eviction process against Wife. The Court often moves slowly and you can't...

What state has jurisdiction? How do we ensure that what's mine stays mine, no alimony, any money owed gets repaid?

You need a post-nup and in there you can designate which state laws apply.

How do I go about listing the money I get from the buyout? Is it income to the government?

Make sure to speak with your lawyer regarding this.

How can my custody be split between my grandpa and my mom?

Grandpa would have to file a petition with the Court if Mother does not agree.

The father wants the kids for Christmas and they don't want to go and stay with their mom. Do they have to go with their father?

It is always good to be cooperative with the other parent and encourage their relationship with the children.

Do I legally have to take kids/baby in every year for a check up?

There probably is not a specific statute because certain people object for religious reasons. You should have a good excuse why not because it...

How do I get an earlier or immediate court date.? How do I get him home?

Typically getting a sooner court date is not possible as the Judges are very busy.