Custody question

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Infant custody

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Child custody

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I don't see a point in adopting a 41 year old and I don't believe it is possible.

How old does a child have to be to choose to live with one parent and not the other?

Legally, a child can never choose where they want to live. The child's desire of where they want to live is something the Judge has to consider...

Requesting findings of fact and conclusions of law is something that is done after a case is filed but before the trial. Generally attorneys do not...

Ex spouses partner being involved?

Generally no. Unfortunately, many times this is not specified in a parenting plan. I suggest you send an email to the other parent stating that...

Can I do anything for holding my ex responsible for my son mirroring him in abusing him and pushing me around ?

I think the most you can do now is get a Court order that your child attend counseling on a weekly basis. A lot of these problems are unfortunately...

If my ex is going to be out of the house on week days for 6 hrs every day, can my son be with me for the 6 hrs legally?

You should consult with a Family law attorney in your area. You can find one using the Avvo "Find a Lawyer" link.

Me and my ex never married 50 50 custody of our son that is 2yrs old

Please find an attorney in your area using Avvo. They should be able to help you with your question.