No. The first filer does not receive and advantage or preference by the court.

We are traveling on March, is it wise to ask for the name change before we leave? Will it affect her oath taking ceremony date?

You probably want to change the name as soon as possible.

What steps do I need to take to get the inheritance she thought would be souly mine.

Consult an estates attorney for detailed advice on your complex problem. I changed the practice area.

Will we win the case for 70/30 custody if we appeal the hearing? Do we even have a chance of winning this battle?

Appeals generally have a very low chance of success because the Court has already considered the facts and rules once.

Can child support be deviated from?

Yes it can, but the Court's order or by agreement of the parties.

What can I do to change it to my name?

It appears you are asking for Facebook advice. Consult their website for help.

What can I do regarding the restraining order so I can see my kids

If you have a restraining order on you, you are entitled to a hearing to contest it with the Court.

How long do I have to wait before going to court for lack of child support payment?

Typically you can file an enforcement as soon as the other parent stops paying child support.

Need an attorney for a lawsuit, for neglect and abuse

Please use Avvo or Google searches to find an attorney that will offer a free consultation.

Child Support Judgement & Order

Go to the Court and request a copy of the document.