What are all the pitfalls of our situation? should I purchase home myself and let her pay only utilities? My name on deed only?

Do you want her to be able to get a one-half interest in the monies that you have placed into this property? If the answer to that is no, then you...

When asst mgt co. begins repairs to property under COS without anyones knowledge through and after settlement? Who pays.

This issue needs more investigation. You may want to attempt to send letters to the persons involved. If not, I would hire an attorney to...

What can I do to better my chances of continuing to be in my surrogate daughters life?

If CPS is involved, then that depends on what they have found, whether they will refer this to the child being a Child In Need of Assistance or...

How should we proceed?

Contact the permit department and inquire with them.

How long can this go on its been over a year. Can time run out and dismiss the case?

You have a right to a just and speedy trial. This is determined by a judge. If you do not have an attorney, I would hire one to review the file and...

After 26 years in a live in relationship how is property purchased together settled?

If they purchased it together in a lot of states she may be entitled to a half interest. That determination may be made by how much each person...

Do I have the right to keep my son until court?

It sounds like you are in the midst of a custody battle. The decision to keep your son may look bad or may look good. Your attorney is the best...

Wrongful termination of employment

Mr. Brewer is correct. Additionally, you may want to ask your employer to have the number blocked from calling their office.

Until they verify what has happened they may. You would want to contact BGE again and see if they can open up an investigation into what happened....

What do I have to worry about here

How much is the home worth? Are you working? Can you get someone else to co-sign? You may be able to refinance with a smaller lender? Does he...