What can he do to build a case against her to get custody? What are his odds of getting custody of both boys?

The entire situation would have to be reviewed in order to state what a judge may likely do. There are many factors to consider in custody cases....

Can I send a friend to pick up my children from my ex if I give her a written letter saying that she has my permission?

If your ex refuses he probably will not be held in contempt. You should request a modification of your custody order if your contact with your ex...

Why should i need a lawyer and what is the main pourpose the judge fouces on

You need a lawyer to insure you are counseled properly about the current laws of the state and the expectations that the court has for someone...

Will I be charged with kidnapping If I keep my children even though the custodial parent is in jail? Do I have any say in it?

If father is in jail and you have a custody arrangement then custody does not default to grandparents. I would keep kids definitely until he is...

How to legally force him to sign and add his name to birth certificate? Is there a way to do so without him coming to USA ?

You may want to file an action for custody and make the allegation, of course paternity would have to be determined. At that point it would be best...

Is this legal for DCFS to remove my child without an harm, endangerment etc

I agree with sister counsel. It would be a disservice to advise you on an internet forum the likelihood of anything in this matter. A retained...

When can I choose to live with

Sounds like there are some things that you may want to discuss with your mother. Let her know your situation and see if there is a conversation...

How can I get around this situation

As counsel has stated, you should review your court order and have it amended if there is no provision giving you the ability to take your child...

Can the child refuse to visit unless he wants to?

http://farzadlaw.com/california-child-custody/childs-preference-custody-how-when-choose/ Goes through a pretty good list of how CA deals with these...

He may attempt to enforce his interpretation of the order. An attorney should review the actual custody order and consult with you on how you...