Could I modify the plan by 18 months? ( needs a relationship with father + very long driving time for such a small child)

Ma'am your post is very convoluted. You say the dad doesn't follow the plan and you don't want the child spending the night, then you say that you...

Can he get the retaliation charge amended down based on circumstances or anything? The comment was made venting to me.

You need to hire an aggressive criminal defense lawyer.

Can i get charges dropped or dismissed

Hire a good criminal defense attorney and let them mount your defense.

No unfortunately you cannot. The KY legislature is considering legislation to allow expungement of some non-violent Class D felonies. That would be...

Normally date of separation would be the date of separation indicated on the petition for divorce. Debts or assets accrued after separation are...

If the accusers don't show up, then it is possible for the investigating officer to testify to the allegations and the alleged criminal conduct....

Worried

Hire a criminal defense attorney ASAP to get the warrant set aside.

I THOUGHT I WAS MARRIED,BUT HE NEVER DIVORCED SECOND WIFE,I AM THIRD WIFE,WE ARE GETTING A DIVORCE, HOW WILL THAT AFFECT ALLIMON

You aren't married. Your "marriage" has to be annulled; your marriage violates the law therefore it is not lawful. You can't lawfully get married...

Cops lied to obtain a search warrant of my home how do I proceed ?

You should retain an aggressive criminal defense attorney to challenge the search by a motion to suppress the evidence obtained in the search....

An EPO isn't a criminal charge. But you need to provide more info. Assuming you Filed for the EPO, then you will need to appear at the hearing...