What are my rights to protect myself, and how do I get the process for placement for my son to happen sooner.

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If you want DCF out of your life then you have to cooperate with them. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

What happens when the Petitioner for an injunction attempts to make contact with the Respondent prior to the hearing?

The attorney contacting you is not a violation. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Can I refuse visitation if the other parent won't tell me where they live?

No address given, no time sharing. Simple. ................................

Do I have to communicate with my sons father prior to going to court for custody?

If you refuse to co-parent and talk to you husband then you have a good chance of losing your case. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

How can I get the judge's order to pay several thousand dollars arrears child support by next week extended over several months?

File a petition and/or motion to adjust the payment of child support. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Is he violating the DVI by using photos of the children? Photos used along with text to depict a false impression of kids?

This is not appropriate conduct, you should file a notice that he has violated the injunction. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

What are my legal options?

You cannot just take your kids. File a petition with the court to establish your parental rights. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Steps to filing a motion for contempt.

Send a copy to his lawyer too. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

How long legally do I have to respond

There is no deadline if you were just handed papers. Have a lawyer review the paperwork with you.