What can I do to prevent my spouse from forcing his way into my new home when he is not on the lease?

Get a restraining order, he is stalking you. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in this case.

What can I do? What should I do?

Call the police, get a restraining order.

After the divorce then you can remove them from your insurance, yes. No problem. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in this case.

Will I have to give a share to him for my new home?

Get divorced BEFORE buying the home. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in this case.

What are the costs and procedures for an adult adoption in Florida?

You should hire a lawyer to represent you in this case. It will cost approximately 2500 plus court costs.

Do i still have a way to get them back from that situation if the aunt told social services that i abandoned them?

You should hire a lawyer to represent you in this case. Petition the court for custody.

Can my children's father sign over is rights by filing on the state that he lives in?

He cannot just sign a piece of paper to terminate his rights. That is not how society works.

What are our rights to privacy when dealing with DCF Florida when we still have full parental rights?

If you are getting harassed by DCF then retain a lawyer.

If you use a lawyer then you won't run into these simple problems that would NOT occur if you used a lawyer. Or you can contact the help desk at...

Will I be given the right to watch my children if my spouse needs a sitter for an extended period of time (over 4 hours?).

If the right of first refusal is in your court order then yes, if not then no. It is not automatic it has to be in your paperwork. You should...