Is there anything she can do to get visitation rights?

You have no recourse....................................................................................................

Is it normal for the person getting paid the child support to get the smith/speed credit, Also how would she get medical credit?

Have a lawyer review the numbers. Doesn't sound right.................................................................

Get custody

Great! Reopen the case and file for custody back. Use of a lawyer is recommended in this case.

Should my wife help with bills if she lives in the house with me but we are not together?

Yes she should be responsible for her share of the bills. Use of a lawyer is recommended in this case..

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Is it time to file a contempt of court or change in custody request?

If the other side is violating the order then re-open the case and go back to court. Use of a lawyer is recommended in this case.

What can possibly be done being I consulted with this same firm about my current case?

This is a conflict of interest and the attorney you consulted with has to get off the case.

Do I still need to serve the petitioner and do I have a court date.

You have to get service of process. Use of a lawyer is recommended in this case.

Family Law Interrogatories are standard so you have to answer them under oath. Use of a lawyer is recommended in this case.

Can he do this can I fight this

Use of a lawyer is recommended in this case. If not the biological or legal father then you should be able to get your child back no problem.

What can I leagally do to protect them until I find a safe residence to move into?

You have no legal standing to do anything. ................................................