I recently had a domestic violence occurance. dcf is now taking me to court because i REFUSED treatment which is a lie.

unlikely. It is best to work with them and do the case plan tasks.

Can my girlfriends mom have a restraining order placed on my girlfriend and I (not against me and her mom) we are both 17

yes it is called an injunction against dating violence.

My friend was told by a cop that she has a junction filed against her. What does a junction filed against the party mean?

Most likely a restraining order against domestic violence.

Can a parent with shared parental responsibilities request for more time with child?

"The parenting plan we have now is not working out for me" is not a reason to change the current plan the burden of proof is high.

Can I get a copy of a transcript contempt hearing

call the court and order a copy. You have to pay for it.

Am I legally married? A certified copy of my marriage certificate from NYS contains NO book or page number in the Vital Records

I am a NY lawyer in my opinion you are legally married despite the clerk mistake.

If your ex is in jail or is about to be then yes you will get sole custody. You should use a lawyer.

Paternity has been established and I am the father of my 1 year old. How do I get visitation from 8 hours away?

you have legal rights so long as you enforce them. Doubtful you will get 50/50 custody if you are 8 hours apart.

Can e-mail serve as written notice that someone doesn't have to show up for a subpoena for family court/civil trial?

You are responsible for showing up if under subpoena unless excused (preferably in writing) by the attorney.

Question with Contempt of Court

The lower court does have jurisdiction over its own orders so file your motion with the original court.