My husband is a drug addict i'm trying to get a divorce to get my daugther out of this situation but he said he wont sign papers

He does not have to sign anything just serve him with the papers. It only takes one party to get divorced. If he is elusive you can still get it...

What steps should I take now...

yes you have to respond in writing to her petition plus put forth your issues that you want addressed in writing.

What packets do I file to appeal a termination of parental rights? Do I have to have an attorney to do this?

you have 30 days from entry of the order to file an appeal. You definitely need a lawyer for the appeal. Contact my office.

Is there a place I can call in Hillsborough County to tell me if there is a restraining order against me?

check with the clerk on-line you can look it up

Should I have a lawyer represent me in an injunction hearing if I'm the petitioner?

yes you should have a lawyer present especially if they have one

Going into mediation. they have given me a false financial affidavit. how should i handle the mediation

the pay stubs and IRS returns should verify the information on the affidavit so make sure these are produced.

After 17 years of marriage, can one party have total say so on most of savings?

All the assets are presumed marital so anything she is doing with "her" assets is half yours, unless these were pre-marital assets of hers that...

Do I need a lawyer to get divorced if we have no kids or any property together ?

You should get a lawyer. My fee is $1500.

You can get divorced in the state where you have lived.

I recently filed an adult name change request, and I filed the wrong name. What are my options now?

All you have to do is amend your documents.