I-751 pending at California center and wife wants divorce. What are my options?

You should get the immigration paperwork finished first then get the divorce. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in the case.

Can I sue or is it not worth the time

This is a slip and fall personal injury case so you should consult with a lawyer.

Can i get my child support payment reduced?

You should hire a lawyer to represent you in the case.........................................................................

What can I do??

If you can obtain a copy of the video then use it in court. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in the case.

Is it a good idea for the woman to leave the primary residence during a separation?

If you do not have children then moving makes little or no difference. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in the case.

"scrivener's error"

Yes she is permitted to do that. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in the case.

Does my son have to have his own bedroom or bed while living with me..

There is no such requirement no. (There is no such thing as a "bedroom state").

Domestic violence situation

If there is domestic violence in that home then file a motion for full custody. You should hire a lawyer to represent you in the case.

It is in your interests to correct your documents.

Can a father sign over his rights on his own? and if so does he still have to pay support? even if they are not being adopted?

Without a step-parent adoption it is still possible for the father to relinquish his rights however the procedure is difficult. You should hire a...