Step-parent adoption: what state has jurisdiction?

file in FL where the child lives. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Extra curricular activities-how should I handle this?

If the activities interfere with your visitation days then you are entitled to enforce those days. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Who is responsible for travel costs when the non costodal parent moved out of state.

The general rule is that you move you pay so the order should be changed to reflect this. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Is There a way to discharge back child support? The tow children are 39 and 37 years old.

The ex can agree to erase the support or you can file a motion with the Court. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Can my childs auxillary benefit offset the amount of my child support I'm required to pay?

Under the FL support guidelines you do get credit for the SSI that goes to the child.

What steps to get emergency custody?

I do not recommend getting DCF involved in any way. You have to file for relative custody asap. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

What are the steps I need to take to change my daughters last name to mine and my husbands? He is not her biological father.

This case would qualify for a step-parent adoption. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

My father's wife is filing for divorce ?

He needs to retain a lawyer to assist him with the case.

What states has the jurisdiction if I were to file a motion to disestablish a paternity Arizona or Florida?

Florida Has jurisdiction still so file the case in FL. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Yes, first you have to re-record the judgment as a judgment lien and have it recorded with the court. Use of a Lawyer is recommended