My ex-wife went to a therapist while we were married and was told she was bi-polar. Should I tell the judge?

You will have to get a court order to get the records, you also have to place her mental state at issue with the court. Use of a lawyer is...

Would the defendant be eligible to recover attorney's fees since the plaintiff dismissed the case?

If you filed a timely motion for fees prior to the dismissal then yes. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

I sent an interrogatory and a Request to Produce to my husband's attorney. What else can I do?

subpoena all his financial records. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Medical Neglect is it a crime?

If there is a medical neglect issue then call DCF.

How do I establish my rights as a non-married father?

You have to file a petition with the court to establish your parental rights. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

High babysitter fee

Testimony is evidence so ask for receipts, do a request to produce. Or Subpoena the babysitter. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Financial Affidavit?

If you want verification of items then simply do a request to produce. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Do I need to file something with the court in order to email legal documents to my husbands attorney?

You can sign up for e-service in your case or just send documents with traditional U.S. mail. Use of a lawyer is recommended.

Child Support and SSI benefits from non custodial parent

The SSI payments are the child support you cannot collect both

Make sure all your motions are in writing and the notice of hearing spells out all matters to be heard on that day. Use of a lawyer is recommended.