Husband filed for divorce claiming he could not locate me could he be granted this divorce rapidly in Anoka county, Minnesota?

Sometimes a default judgment can be reopened. I suggest that you speak with a lawyer as soon as possible.

The forms are on line. She should be able to do this without a lawyer. The time lines in every county are different, but I would think it would...

Appeal Decision of District Court ?

There are short deadlines associated with appeals. You should meet with an attorney as soon as possible to discuss your case.

She should contact an attorney and bring a motion to enforce the custody order.

How can I gain custody back after giving it to the father when I was deemed unfit?

You should talk to a lawyer. You will either have to bring a motion in juvenile court or family court.

You will need to explain to the court your financial situation and the research you have done to find low cost mediation.

What do I do if I can’t afford a lawyer in this situation but I also can’t get a free one

You need to hire an attorney. Some lawyers will provide free consultations.

I live in MN and we haven't filed for divorce yet am I allowed to remove property from my home? I would like to take my bed.

Yes you can take property from the home.

What kind time doe pulling a gun on someone under the influence ,

This should be transferred to criminal.

How do I get my daughter?

You will need to take legal action. I suggest that you meet wit an attorney as soon as possible.