I was told by a lawyer that I can Changthe locks on my house,which is solely mine I bought over18 years ago

You are not clear. You moved out and want to change the locks to keep her out when she is in? You definitely should sit down with a lawyer.

Have no further contact. If you get notice from the police or the court, get an attorney.

I would like to know if I have to follow a new proposed order from a custody hearing or continue to follow the order now

You follow the current Order until a Judge signs the proposed Order.

Read the HOA rules and regulations.

Does changing a minor’s last name to the father’s last name, change or re set a child support order amount thats now active?

Changing her name would have no negative effect on the support. But might well have a positive effect on his attitude.

If the property is given back before charges were filed, perhaps no charges would be filed. If the property is given back after charges are filed,...

Can you easily add a wife to the title to a house without transfer fees?

You cannot avoid transfer fees. But they are not much. You avoid taxes by indicating that the transfer was for no consideration. You need an...

If you do not have an attorney, get one. There is no up-front charge. The attorney gets a percentage of what he /she wins. In Answers to...

If the possible crime took place in a county in New Jersey, you should file a police complaint in that county.

The IME is not her doctor. She has no right to chose an IME. She has a right to employ counsel to represent her.