Your husband needs to see a lawyer to find what actions can be taken. (Not about the judge, but the ruling.)

You have to fight the suit against you and win and then you can sue her.

He has joint legal custody and a visitation schedule. If you do not comply ,he can file for contempt.

Call the Court clerk and find out if the court has issued the Order changing your name. If it has, wait for the mail. If it has not, ask the...

A step-parent adoption is a common procedure. Yours is complicated by not knowing who the biological father is. But you must know the possible...

In the terms for the divorce you could both request to sell it yourselves on the open market , list by a certain date, agree on the lowest price...

Only possibly. Courts like time issues. They are clear and generally cannot be overturned. For your specific case, consult an attorney.

Appeals are strict procedurally. If the rule says 10, it is 10.

Call the clerk of the court and describe your issue.

Have someone go with you to pick up your check and you deliver the keys.