Do you file for divorce in the country you got married in (of which I'm a citizen), or the country you live in (US)?

I agree with Christopher. The site of jurisdiction is the site of residence.

Mitigating circumstances in assault?

Your information is unclear. Self-defense must be reasonable and not greater than the situation merits.

Being honest with your defense counsel?

It is my view that honest is critical.

Boyfriend wants to force me to drop a&b charges on him

Christopher is wrong. This is a form of witness intimidation. If you want to purse action call the DA or the police.

Out of control son

A physical exam is the correct first step. You can also seek a special educational evaluation from the school.

My oldest daughter want to change her last name to her step-dads

How old is she?

There is a RO in MA for 1year against my friend. Is it automatically renewed or does the person who filed it need to file again

Nothing renews automatically. the person needs to refile and demonstrate to the judge that the RO needs to continue.

Can dor extend your child support after 21 when they told you you were done?

it depends on whether you the child is attending full time post secondary school. If not, file an action to end support.

I was driving south on a straight street, i have the right of the road. at the point where another street connects to the street

Drawing out is not your focus; getting compensated for the damage is your goal.

yes, you are still legally married.