Pre-mediation counseling?

My bias is that you use an attorney-mediator to deal with legal issues, especially if the result of the mediation is going to be filed in court. ...

I was married for 13 years and was awarded a modest amount of alimony in 2009. Does the 2011 reform change my order for alimony?

a change in your ex's earning is not grounds for a modification of alimony.

Going through a divorce..in love with another person.i have no legal status could He file if we marry?

your question is unclear and it is thus hard to answer.

Can I subpoena records from my Ex's divorce attorney?

My reaction is that you not only can, but you should do discovery and identify what this lawyer is going to say, based on what records, and what...

Is this libel?

Without knowing more, it is potentially actionable.

Do I need an attorney

You need an attorney - this is not defamation but maybe invasion of privacy along with some other torts.

Is a commercial company required to provide a written transcription of an oral contract?

I would suggest that you ask for a copy of the recording.

I have a Child Modification trial Thursday, witness are getting subpoenas tomorrow, can we quash them

This is idiocy and sending something the last moment unless you have contacted the witnesses before is a risk of malpractice. It may be too late to...

My ex has a 209A order against me but owes me money and personal items. Can an attorney send her a letter demanding the items?

yes the attorney can. A 209a does not undermine his legal obligations to you. Is there a court order? If there is, file a contempt action.

I agree - you would need a court order to attach the pension.