If you have been arraigned, and they have access to your CORI, it will be seen.

If my wife put a restraining order out on me if we have a mutual friend she is allowed to relay information for her

This is a recipe for problems. I don't like the sound of it.

IS IT LEGAL FOR A MOTHER TO TAKE A CHILD FROM THE FATHER AND SEND HER TO FLORIDA WHEN THE FATHER IS IN MASS....

Do not wait. File for contempt and modification seeking physical custody of the child.

Can you have retroactive modification to divorce decree for alimony and child support if your income dropped after divorce?

What does the court order say. This could be a contempt action.

Has the lawyer done anything illegal or broken ethical rules?

I agree . A lawyer should not encourage or suggest any conduct that lacks a basis in fact.

How can I get a appointed lawyer to help my fiance get out of cruel and unusual punishment ?!

Contact the county bar advocates office. I recall there is a prisoner's organization .

I'm moving out of mass and my son's father isn't fighting me to staybut do I have to provide transportation?can he lower support

Is there a visitation order in effect regarding visits?

If he left the house, change the locks.

What is the role of a lawyer with a Trustee when settling an estate? How does the Trustee limit the lawyers involvement?

Fire the lawyer. You don't have to put up with this

My wife got a restraining order out on me how can she get money from me if we have not even been to court yet

yes - you must pay since this is a court order.