The failure to complete the test can be deemed a refusal. See: http://www.courts.state.ny.us/Reporter/3dseries/2005/2005_25108.htm I suggest...

How do I stop my ex from repeatedly harassing me by taking me back and forth to court for the same things?

I suggest you review the information at: http://ww2.nycourts.gov/rules/chiefadmin/130.shtml

Don't I have the right to face my accuser in any civil matter, in whatever legal forum is applicable?

The confrontation clause set forth in the Sixth Amendment specifically applies to criminal cases.

Cost of living raise on my child support case explain if I did not receive a notice and inquired about one how do I get one ?

I suggest that you review the information at: https://www.lawhelpny.org/resource/cost-of-living-adjustments-cola-for-child-sup

I got my license revoked due to getting a 60 in a 55 while having a restricted license. Will I have to take my road test again?

I suggest that you read the information at: https://dmv.ny.gov/tickets/restore-license-after-revocation

I'm a foster parent.case was called in on me. Should I have a attorney?

You would be wise to be represented by legal counsel who is fully familiar with Article 10 of the Family Court Law as well as the CPS Handbook.

Residential Custody for School but Joint Custody 50/50?

You should listen to your lawyer because he or she presumably knows all the facts and circumstances.

Can I fight wage garnishment through SCU?

The court basically had no authority to deny the request for the services of the child support unit....

Can you get a loan for a business without credit Or if ex-husband co signs?

It is possible that he co-signed a loan.

How do we go about getting custody of the child ?

It sounds like you should be speaking with a North Carolina adoption attorney.