I need help in navigating a legal separation...he controls money...pro bono?

I suggest you consider contacting several matrimonial atttorneys in your area to set up some initial consultations. There some who offer such...

Should I plead guilty or not guilty for going 90 in a 65 on the NYS thruway?

Plead not guilty and seek a plea reduction. But, you should not hide this incident from your parents. This incident will likely effect their...

Go through a divorce, can my husband get in trouble for paying less child support than ordered?

A non custodial parent who willfully fails to comply with a child support order could be sentenced to jail for up to six months.

Does the agreement contain an infidelity clause? If so, what does it say?

How does inheritance from foreign country affect child support amount

It would only possibly effect her pro rata share of add ons.

My x husband filed for chapter 7.

Who is identified on the deed as the owner of the property?

I suggest you review the information at: https://www.osc.state.ny.us/retire/members/divorce/dro_guide/ex-spouse_share.php

Can I put in a request for child support after I terminated the order?

Yes but any child support granted would likely only be retroactive to your date of the filing of your new petition for child support.

You can demand spousal support amongst other things. You should consult counsel directly.

Ex signed son up for driver permit

I suggest you request the non custodial parent to sign a withdrawal of consent. See: https://dmv.ny.gov/forms/mv1w.pdf If they refuse then...