Can I get a order of protection against my girlfriend that lives with me?

I suggest you review the information at: https://www.nycourts.gov/courts/7jd/courts/family/case_types/family_offense.shtml

I am at my wits' end! I don't know what more I can do. Now OCSE is coming after me for arrears; they owe me! Can't anybody help?

A lawyer would need to review your entire family court file related to child support and a complete copy of your child support payment history to...

How much child support arrears do i owe?

I suggest you call non custodial parent services. See: https://www.childsupport.ny.gov/dcse/non_custodial_parent_services.html

I suggest you review VTL 509(11) at: https://codes.findlaw.com/ny/vehicle-and-traffic-law/vat-sect-509.html In addition to the fine, you will...

You sure that you were convicted of DWAI rather than DWI? If so, is this your first conviction for DWAI?

I suggest you review Penal Law 125.25 at: http://ypdcrime.com/penal.law/article125.htm#p125.25

How can I receive a new deferment or a forbearance for school loans, while I have already received the maximum amount of time?

I believe three years cumulative is the maximum deferment time period for economic hardship. See:...

Can I take money out of a joint account if my ex never got my name taken off the account?

Was he awarded the account in the divorce? If so, in my view you would be foolish to touch any of the money in that account.

In New York State can a non custodial parent claim child support as a credit? ?

I think both statements can be read to be consistent. The child support website states you must have payed your total child support obiligation...

I suggest that you review the information at: https://www1.nyc.gov/site/acs/justice/juvenile-justice-process.page