Am I handling the situation correctly? Would like to seek a private attorney but are there any affordable options?

It sounds like the charge has been reduced to attempted unlawful suveilance in the second degree which is a class A misdemeanor rather class E...

Should i sign papers

Never sign a document you never read nor advise someone to sign an agreement you never read.

My question is am I legally allowed to put my daughter under my husbands insurance as a secondary to cover all unpaid medical?

This question is best answered by your husband's human resource department or health benefits coordinator.

Can I still obtain my security license even if I have an I Card on my record

Do you mean security guard? If so, I suggest you review the information at: http://www.dos.ny.gov/licensing/securityguard/sguard.html

I suggest you review the NYS Labor Deparent webpage found at: http://www.labor.ny.gov/careerservices/ace/employers.shtm

Can my husband grant me guardianship of his daughter?

I suggest you review the information published on the NYS Court website at: https://www.nycourts.gov/courthelp/Guardianship/child.shtml

I would like to know if it is recommended to make a prenuptial agreement, and if so what kind of prenups should i get.

A college degree obtained during marriage can be subject to equitable distribution in an action for divorce.

Is there a court order of any kind prohibiting you from possessing an otherwise lawful flashlight?

What do i do

You retain an experienced DWI attorney to defend you without delay.

Child support issues when child is over 21. Does Family Court handle it? LOTS of money at stake.

The unpaid add-ons are not too complicated. You merely need to file a violation of child support petition. The issue of fraud is extremely...