How to dismiss the charges if the indictment has not been filed and its three weeks post grand jury

A complete review of the court record would be required to properly respond to your question.

How Long Does A Prosecutor Have To Attempt Grand Jury Action Before Its Too Late For The Case To Proceed Any Further?

I suggest you review CPL 30.30 which can be found at: http://ypdcrime.com/cpl/article30.htm#c30.30

What happens if I plead 'not guilty' and send back to city court? What chance do I have of the judge not issuing any points?

You should plead not guilty and seek an offer from the prosecutor to a non-moving violation. If the prosecutor is unwilling to offer a plea to a...

Should i tell probation of police contact?

You should fully comply with each and every condition of your probation.

So the Magistrate tells me she wont provide legal aide until i submit my financials.

Your can have a private attorney review the document at your own expense.

Family court Magistrate recusal

It does not sound like the Support Magistrate is "interested" within the meaning of Judiciary Law § 14. See:...

Is there a different process that takes place if she is going for a mental health defense?

I suggest you review the information found at: http://www.courts.state.ny.us/ad3//mhls/Representing%20Clients%20with%20Mental%20Disabilities.pdf

Does a confidential informant have to be inside an apartment for a search warrant to be valid?

In my opinion, the confidential informant would not necessarily have needed to have been inside the apartment. But, defense counsel should...

The court will consider all sources of income when deciding a petition for alimony and/ or child support. See: FCA 413.

Can I collect any back monies from my husband since we don't live together? He's given me nothing in 5 yrs living apart.

No. Child support is only retroactive to the date of the filing of the petition for child support.