How can I solve this problem fast my x does not want to talk to me about my kids? Is there a way I can talk to the judge?

Is there any type of custody and visitation order in place? If so, you should comply with it unless modified.

What is the quickest and least expensive way to obtain a divorce?

You might want to explore the collaborative divorce process which is discussed at: https://www.nycourts.gov/ip/collablaw/index.shtml

What options do i have? And if followed through...what could that mean for her, our child and myself?

It sounds like your options are to: attempt to work things out with her possibly with the assistance of professional counseling; pursue a legal...

Please help

I suggest you ask your attorney if all the papers have been completed and submitted to the court and whether he or she has any type of estimate as...

Can you pleas try to make me understand the strategic reason for putting in a motion on the day it is to be in on?

You may find interesting the case of People v. Cox which can be found at: http://www.nypti.org/people-v-cox-2007-ny-slip-op-52553u-3/

Can parents be held responsible for underage drinking under their roof(,even if they explicitly forbid it)?

I suggest you read the information at: https://www.sla.ny.gov/system/files/alcohol-and-your-child.pdf I also suggest you check local laws.

Should i file in the court? When Should I do it ? Can court subpoena her to come back to NY?

I think you will find interesting the information found in the blog posted found...

How to inform the NY court that I don't want to pursue a divorce case?

I suggest you consult with a lawyer about whether you should file an affidavit of consent. If you need assistance in obtaining a lawyer...

You should exercise your right to counsel without delay. If you can not afford counsel request the services ofvthe public defender.

How do I handle this situation?

If you need assistance in finding a lawyer you may want to consider using the state or local bar association referral service. For more information...