How long after ,the 21 days are up with out a response can I go in default and summit it to a judge

I suggest you review step 4 at: http://nycourts.gov/courthelp/Family/divorceOverview.shtml

You might find helpful the information at: http://www2.nycbar.org/Publications/reports/show_html_new.php?rid=864

Can I get a divorce judge to award me attorneys fees BEFORE I hire an attorney?

I suggest you review Domestic Relations Law 237 which can be found at: http://codes.findlaw.com/ny/domestic-relations-law/dom-sect-237.html

UP TO WHAT AGE DO I HAVE TO PAY SUPPORT?

In New York child support is payable until the child turns 21 or sooner emanicipated unless other agreed to by the parties.

If it's reasonable suspicion to turn into a parking lot right before police road block what about a recreational community park?

As stated in People v. Gutherie As this Court has previously explained, "any exercise of police power under the Fourth Amendment of the United...

What do i do now? Do i need a device installed if the court messed up? Can they re charge me and revoke lisence again?

When were you convicted of felony DWI?

Because this is his second offense with same charge,even being a misdemeanor, will his punishment be harsher?

The maximum sentence for a class A misdemeanor is one year. If he served eight months last time he probably was sentenced to a year last time and...

CAN I I GIVE IT DIRECTLY TO MY DAUGHTER?

You need to pay your child support to the custodial parent.

What should be my next step when I was not served and there is a request for judicial intervention with my divorce?

Your next step should be to retain a lawyer.

Is there any problem entering the united states, if my case is dismissed and sealed (ACD) already?

I suggest you post your question under the immigration practice area rather than criminal defense.